Husbands and Wives: The Balance of Christian Marriage
Uniting Heaven and Earth Christ in Philippians and Colossians Living with Christ Lesson 12 - Sunday Love and Respect: The Balance of Christian Marriage Marriage has often been misunderstood when people read only part of what Scripture teaches. In Colossians 3:18–19, the apostle Paul writes, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them” (KJV). These two verses reveal a vital balance. One instruction is not given without the other. Submission without love becomes oppression, and authority without kindness becomes cruelty. But when both principles operate together, marriage reflects God’s design of harmony and mutual care. Paul expands this teaching in Ephesians 5:22–25, 33. There he calls wives to respect their husbands and husbands to love their wives “even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” This comparison is profound. Christ’s leadership over the chur...